Will your family be hosting a circle dialogue this Thanksgiving?
Many families have a tradition of going around the table and answering the question, “what are you thankful for this year?” This is a great example of an impromptu circle– just grab a talking piece (you can create one or just grab the salt shaker) and set the ground rules that when one person has that talking piece, everyone else is listening!
Remember, others will follow if you set a tone of openness and vulnerability for your circle! Promote strong dialogue with your family and friends this holiday seasons with the following tips:
Conversation starters to spice up your holiday table talk:
- What does it mean to you to give thanks?
- What expressions of gratitude would leave you feeling most appreciated?
- Who at the table would you like to thank personally and for what?
- If you could share Thanksgiving dinner with one famous historical figure, who would you choose?
- What question would you ask them?
- What are you looking forward to in December?
Tips for a constructive conversation:
- Avoid starting questions with “why”
- Start sentences with “I”
- Ask open-ended questions—questions that have more than a 1-word answer
- Use your good listening skills–that means no interruptions, watch your body language and try to paraphrase the facts and feels of the speaker
- Ask for clarification before making assumptions
Best wishes for a fun and productive conversation!